Afraid of Commitment

So here I am, attempting to make good on my promise to write entries more often when there's a lull between speaking engagements. I've had two people call me on my promise to write more regularly, and so here's my attempt.

What do I have to say today? Nothing. Not much anyway. I speak tomorrow night for a large youth group here in Pella. I spoke for them at a camp last summer, and I've spoken to them in their youth room. So they've heard me before, and they're a pretty good group of high schoolers and adults.

The question is - what do I have to tell them? I'm straddling the line right now between two separate subjects - peer pressure or committing sins even when we know we're doing something wrong while we're doing them.

I, for the first time in my life, actually read the entire story of Balaam in the Bible book of Numbers. Long story short, Balaam's an occultist / magician / soothsayer kind of guy who's asked by the king to curse God's people. If Balaam does so, the king will reward him handsomely. God meets Balaam on the road as an angel, get's his donkey to talk to him, and convinces Balaam to not say anything that's not God approved.

Well, three different times, the king points out the Israelites to Balaam and says, "There they are! Let's have a good curse now!" And three times, Balaam instead blesses them because that's what God wants instead. The king refuses to pay Balaam, and they go their separate ways.

Now, right there I figure I have a pretty good story for a talk. Here's a guy that's told he'll be rewarded beyond his wildest dreams, and all he has to do is say a few cross words even though he knows he's not supposed to. This guy, even though he's already a pretty messed up, sinful guy, refuses to accept the influence of important people around him, and does the right thing. Great peer pressure illustration.

On the other hand, just a few chapters later, we're told his body is found dead with several enemy leaders after a battle with the Israelites. Not only that, but it's then explained that after the whole cursing / blessing incident, Balaam was responsible for leading God's people down the road of temptation through lust and adultery. So now the illustration kind of changes to a guy who was living his life the wrong way, got to actually get a glimpse and have a conversation with the one true God, and yet he still decided to go down the wrong path later on even though he must have know what he was doing was wrong.

Either angle on the story, I'm happy with. I'm just having trouble finding a clincher for the talk. A good and simple illustration that I can use to really bring the point home.

I know a lot of speakers who tend to use the internet for good illustrations, but I've always found that a dangerous path. Not because the illustrations are bad, but because sometimes they're so good that everybody's heard them. And the one thing that I'm really happy with about the responses that I get from speaking is that people often mention I'm original and I use new ideas.

So there's my quandry for the day. Feel free to chime in on the comments if you have any suggestions. I'll let you know how it went on Thursday morning.

till next time,

Jason